The kindergarten teacher's secret trick to cry

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Keep crying type
Into the garden in front of the parent-child activities, children long accompanied by playing at home are very happy, but the first day in kindergarten, then without mom and dad, so they feel very afraid, insecure, so from the moment a mom and dad to leave the kindergarten, began to constantly cry, this is a short week, long is more than a month.
The teacher is
Xu teacher (yuexiu district kindergarten in yuntai small class head teacher) : for the children, the first thing we distract him, play with some toys for him, tell him kindergarten can get to know new friends, there are a lot of fun, tell him what time mom and dad to pick him up. Secondly, hug him, let him feel the teacher for his care, enhance his feeling of security. If reasoning, attention to such children don't work, we will properly use cold treatment method, give him some toys to let him play, when the other children in activities, will attract him to take part in, and give some attention.
Advice to parents:
2 ~ 3 years old is the first rebellion period of life, parents to understand this kind of reaction, children in kindergarten cry too much during the day, came home in the evening let him drink some light salt water supplement energy, let children early to bed and early to rise, sleep 9 ~ 10 hours.
Blubber type
This kid blubber, also threw the kindergarten toys at sixes and sevens, deliberately make rice on clothes and when you eat on the table, hitting, bite, rolling on the ground, from time to time to open the door to go out.
The teacher is
Teacher Chen (guangzhou military area commands logistic kindergarten class head teacher) : these kids have outgoing personalities, the comparison of the individual, violent, not happy they like to put on the external environment, for this kind of kid, we mainly unreasonable, let children realize his mistake, and pay attention to put the care of love. Also to some reward for his progress appropriately, as verbal praise and material small red flowers, etc.
Advice to parents:
Hope that parents in the home at ordinary times, according to the child's personality, let him learn some simple rules. Another method of music is smooth child heart, in the home can put a little relaxed and cheerful songs to their children, such as "I love my home", "the little people love to go to school" and so on, has positive effect to treat children rage.
After a few days to cry
Children curiosity, see a lot of home not in kindergarten, immediately became interested and glad to go to the kindergarten a few days ago, don't cry not make, nor cried call mom and dad to the, but a few days later, when he is familiar with the kindergarten life environment, know you want to repeat every day, will be tired, began to use crying said your dissatisfaction.
The teacher is
Xu teacher (yuexiu district hua yi kindergarten class head teacher) : this type of children with a yearning mindset to the new environment, they are most lively and cheerful personality, like exciting things. Use of their curiosity, we will introduce more things in the kindergarten, he did not know, for example, we'll take him to the other class, tell him what brothers and sisters are doing. Transfer the line of sight of his also is very good method, children see new things will soon forget what had just happened.
Advice to parents:
If the baby have no interest in the kindergarten life, want to go home together, my father and mother in the first period of time, parents can let children take a piece of your favorite toys (such as handkerchief, little figurines, kettle) to the kindergarten, ACTS as an indirect emotions, at the beginning of the children to accept unfamiliar environment and teacher partners have familiar with emotional comfort, warmth.
Heart in tears
Communicate with parents, some parents say their children at home is very cheerful, what all say, willing to do anything. But the teacher in the kindergarten, only to find that they don't talk, sat in the corner, just not willing to do anything.
The teacher is
Teacher Chen (guangzhou military area commands logistic kindergarten class head teacher) : this type of kid looks like didn't cry, but my heart is in the silent tears. Our main approach is more chat play to develop a relationship with him, let him to eliminate fear, slowly familiar with the kindergarten life, from the bottom of my heart to trust the teacher as soon as possible. Such children even more than other types of children need love, for example, when you see the child mood is bad, we can find a the most lovely the most beautiful plush toys sent to him and said: "I play with you?" Let the children feel the teacher is a friend of can always give him help.
Advice to parents:
The teacher tried to open the child heart at the same time, parents can be a day when children how to communicate with the teacher, let the children see such warm scene, build emotions help teachers and children as soon as possible.
Influenced by a person with type
Reporter saw when I went to kindergarten, some child was playing with toys, but you see a child crying, a moment later, he will be in tears, finally unbearable, burst into tears. This is the so-called "herding effect".
The teacher is
ROM teacher (yuexiu district hua yi kindergarten class head teacher) : this type of children easily influenced by people, encounter such a situation, we will take them go out for a walk, go to the playground to play, he from crying children for a while, after they calm a bit, then slowly tell them: kindergarten is a good place, they can get a lot of interesting things in the kindergarten, the children cry, just a temporary not adapt.
Advice to parents:
Young children are especially interested in stories, especially the small white rabbit, Wolf, cat, etc. Parents can according to the children are easy to take the plait story to induce children crying scene. The plait story "the small white rabbit kindergarten", for example, through the small white rabbit in the process of kindergarten happy game induced baby love kindergarten.
In order to help the children to adapt to the new environment as soon as possible, early in the garden, the parents should pay attention to the following:
Into the garden to withdraw
Entrance on the first day of the parents can accompany children play together with the other first half an hour, after waiting for children mood is relatively stable and adapt to leave; The second day was reduced to 20 minutes, until the child can completely adapt to. When the teacher took the baby, the parents had better leave at once, don't stay in the kindergarten, should avoid the baby crying inside, parents "cry" outside.
As soon as possible to take back the baby
In order to reduce the fear of the baby when I first got into the garden, can pick up a little earlier in the first two weeks of the baby, let him feel the parents did not forget him.
On the way home, it is better to love the language to communicate with your baby, ask him what interesting activities in the kindergarten, share his joy, make him from the heart to feel loved.
Help the teacher know more about the baby
Different baby to grow up in different family environment, living habits are also different. Parents to communicate with the teacher in time, to facilitate teachers to know more about the baby, better take care of the baby. For example, some a crying baby should urinate and so on. Hide the child or has shown potential life habits or character, is not conducive for the child to adapt to the kindergarten education as soon as possible.
Mental preparation is very important
Parents pick up children on the road and at home in the conversation, don't use a similar "good baby cry poor, mother good love dearly, afraid of......" Such as language induced to strengthen children's bad mood. Should be supplemented by praise, encourage, positive guidance of language suggests that the teacher praised the baby, for example, praise the baby cried for a while, the baby is great, not simple, really beautiful brave kindergarten teacher, preschool toys really much ah, kindergartens have so many friend...
Afterword.
Believe the teacher, children
In the interview process, the teacher said there are certain error, some parents think that children are not like the kindergarten or a teacher, don't go to kindergarten or cry in the garden, but each child is different, the ability to adapt to the new environment is not the same. Both parents and teachers, everything is for the baby. So I hope parents can understand the teacher's work, to believe that the teacher, they have all kinds of handle children crying.
A teacher told me a little trick, mom and dad might as well tell the teacher the birth of my child at home, when the teacher only home people call to call out the name of the child, the child must be very amazed and very kind very familiar, maybe will also is a good weapon to stop crying.
We want to believe that children's resilience, they can quickly adapt to the kindergarten collective life, cry to smile, and fell in love with the kindergarten.