Let the children benefit from the life of the nine habits

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The child's habits directly affect children later in life, wise parents should cultivate good habits in his young age, so the formation of consciousness will make children benefit life, the following nine children habit is essential to success.
One good habit - active choice
1, often talk about the two sides of the child, let the children know that everything has a positive side and negative side.
2, with a positive view of children, appreciate their strengths, and tell the children a positive view of the benefits of problem, so they have to keenly aware of positive selection.
3, the existence of the child's weaknesses, to be an objective view, and even a positive view, believe that the child will be better and better.
4, when the child is in a bad mood, tell him to use a positive attitude to solve the problem.
5, at home to create a relaxed and pleasant living environment.
Good habits of the two - independence is the premise
1, to help children find their own ability.
Parents must first believe that their children are able to be independent, but also to create a variety of conditions in life for the children to find their own ability. You can make some small, easy to achieve the goal, let the children in the experience of success to feel the independence of happiness.
2, can let go of the time as far as possible.
When the weather is cold, the parents do not say to children first "the coat", but to let the children feel in the middle school will add clothes. For the sake of the children's independence, sometimes parents don't care for children.
3, respect for the child's choice is to allow children to be independent of the premise.
The basketball player Jordan's mother had said with deep feeling, the most difficult, most worried about the problem, is the road to my children to allow for their determination and independent to determine their own dreams. "This is precisely the world most parents are worried about the problem. But, in order to let the children really independent, parents must break through this, this is the key to children's independence".
4, let the children have independent thinking.
Independent behavior from independent thinking, the idea of children and parents are not at the same time, parents do not want to deny their ideas, but to ask them why they think so. Listen carefully to their statements, so that children can express their opinions independently.
Good habit of three - a strong sense of responsibility
1, from simple to complex, from easy to difficult, in the family consciously give children proper, can arrange some tasks, such as cleaning, responsible for watering the plants, to see whether he can finish, finish completedimmediately encouraged.
2, to listen to the child's recommendations on family life.
Often and children to talk about the cost of home purchase, personnel exchanges, and ask the child to talk about their own views, or ask the child to think of ways to make ideas. When parents often listen to their views, the adoption of their valuable suggestions, children will arise spontaneously to the family sense of responsibility.
3, let the children learn to self service, do not always say to the child: "you are still small." "You don't understand." "You can't do it." And to give their children a chance to exercise.
Children's growth rate is amazing, far beyond the imagination of adults. Adults that children can not do, the child may have been fully capable of control. Therefore, parents should try to give their children some opportunities to exercise, so that children can be in self service to enhance the sense of responsibility.
4, emphasis on the results of things, so that children develop in all things or not to do, to do it is to do seriously, do a good job, to do a good job of self requirements.
5, parents do not give their children the promise of what, to the requirements of the child to meet his age characteristics, otherwise the child is easy to develop, not to say, forget the bad habits.
Good habit of four - perseverance
1, to give the child a number of specific goals, adhere to every day to do, and to encourage them in time.
2, when the child insisted on doing something to achieve a certain effect, give them a reward. Reward is not necessarily material, can be a look, a smile, or give the child to make a progress record.
3, from easy to cultivate the habit of beginning, gradually cultivate the child's perseverance, so slowly can achieve perseverance.
Some parents always think of their children no longer, do not adhere to, some parents think that perseverance is the natural things, there is no way to cultivate, so only hope the children sigh". In fact, perseverance can be cultivated, and the habit of training is a good way to enhance the perseverance, it can be said that the two are complementary. Perseverance will be in the habit of training in the process of gradually produce, enhance; gradually produce, enhance the perseverance in turn can strongly promote the habit of training.
Good habits five - full of confidence
1, confidence and inferiority is often a wrong thought in passing.
If a person is good at using a positive attitude to look at their own, it is easy to self-confidence; if you always use a negative attitude to look at themselves, it is easy to feel inferior. So parents should be more guidance in this regard, to help children to see the positive side of things.
2, self-confidence is accumulated.
One thing to do to succeed is easy to increase self-confidence, the failure of one thing to do, it is easy to increase the inferiority complex. Therefore, it is recommended that parents do not set unrealistic goals for their children, so that not only can not help children succeed, but will fight the child's self-confidence.
3, the cultivation of children's nail spirit.
The nail can nail on the hard wall, one is because it is very sharp, also is the goal of not big; two is because the nail in time, we are using a hammer, is to use force greatly. If we do not use hammer to nail, and