Today's family education: what is missing?Teach?

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Today's family education: what is missing? Teach what?
For children from time to time everywhere, in all aspects of the parents are not the most responsible parents, parents of this "full range of" responsibility, is likely to cause the child's "zero responsibility"".
Family education is the cornerstone of the development of life. Good family education will make the children develop lively and cheerful personality, strong personality and the spirit of bold exploration; improper family education, parents dote on the formation of the family "greenhouse effect", easy to make the children fear and avoidance of the psychology of school and society, only feel at home is warm, and it is difficult to the formation of a good social adaptation ability and interpersonal skills.
In this regard, many parents still believe in the tree of nature not to regard it as right, straight, but once the children grow up, it is too late!
Wolf's story: the importance of family education
A long time ago, the male wolf and She-Wolf produced the wolf cubs, they are very excited, with the hope of the future of their children can grow as the mighty handsome like them. Wolf, wolf dad mother love their children, coyotes Zaier want, they will try to get to it. They made a nest for Syaoran base, so that the light of heart from care to live. Over time, the male wolf and She-Wolf found their children as a mighty wolf down like a sheep! Male wolf and She-Wolf makes him to hunt, to heavy-hearted wolf parents said: "a wolf is too hard! But their prey, I still want to do stand exposed to wind and rain, a sheep fed by others!"
Look at this fable, what do you think of? Do you want your child to grow up still by you to give him a "Predator", or want him to be independent? Do you want your child to be brave enough to face difficulties and setbacks in the future, or is it a little bit afraid of commitment? Answer, to a certain extent, are the parents in the early family education to create a. Different family education can make children different personality.
Childhood, each person only once. As parents, in the family education should be given to the child's childhood and life left behind? Some parents will feel the problem is very simple: we will use all of us, do our best to give the child the best." However, many parents do not really understand, and some parents even know, in the actual family education, but also let the emotional love, love to control the rational cultivation, education.
Excellent tutor: focus on the growth of children
Wise parents will be more aware of their children's responsibility is "limited liability" and "unlimited responsibility" the perfect combination.
The so-called "limited liability" refers to "obligatory" parents will not leave the children all things down, but to let go, do super nanny and perfect child care, but to develop their own orientation; "infinite responsibility" refers to the parents of the hand on hand, are infinite the responsibility of training and education for children of the whole mind. Specific performance in:
First, give the independent space -- to cultivate the sense of responsibility.
Cultivate children's sense of responsibility, includes two aspects: one is to make children form a responsible way of thinking and in action for their own words and deeds, this is the cultivation of personal responsibility; on the other hand is to cultivate children for friends, family, and even for the whole human society, a sense of responsibility for since childhood, guide the children to form a correct outlook on life and values, which belongs to the cultivation of social responsibility.
"YanShiJiaXun" said: "parents teach, and when the baby young people, who will add color, happiness, education." Family education should start from childhood. In family life, how to cultivate children's sense of responsibility? The most important thing is to give the child a certain right and freedom, so that children can have a certain space to do something. Only children to do something, will have a "take charge as chief of" consciousness, thus forming their understanding of his own. If everything is arranged by parents, children do not have the right to speak, all the consequences of course parents responsible for children, but also responsible for why?
Specifically, in the family, parents should cultivate children to develop the habit of doing their own thing, including dressing, washing, cleaning, sorting stationery and so on. Take study stationery, if the children to clean up their own, when the school found leaking fetch things, he would have a profound understanding of their consequences will be negligent, and pay much attention to later in life. If the parents arranged up? When the child found himself with no use of stationery, they will blame the parents did not tidy up, and do not think that this is their own thing, should be responsible for their own.
Therefore, for the children from time to time, the full face of the parents are not the most responsible parents, parents of this "full range" of responsibility, is likely to cause the child's "zero responsibility"". And let the children to explore their own work, their own responsibility, and not the lack of responsibility of the parents, this semi responsibility but can cultivate a strong sense of responsibility of the child.
Second, do, self-confidence.
In family education, to cultivate children's self-confidence must pay attention to children: the tasks assigned to consider the ability of the child, let the children do what. Many children now have a certain degree of "failure syndrome", the reason is because the task of learning and life beyond the ability of the child and